Through my years of being a dating coach, I understand that when it comes to being attractive to a woman as a single man, there are so many things you have to be, do, and say. No wonder there are so many articles and books by dating coaches out there written to help men become more attractive to women. Most of what we need to do to be more attractive takes hard work and dedication. However, there are a few things that you can do right now to instantly boost your attractiveness to women.
Below are 7 tips to quickly and easily improve your attractiveness to women right now!
1. Groom Yourself -- Women aren't as turned on by your looks as much as your look. Stop dressing like the average guy and start dressing like the adventurer. Keep your clothes, body, and face clean and neat. Carry mints on you every time you meet with a woman and always wear deodorant. Keep your body and facial hair well groomed.
2. Be a Challenge -- Most guys behave like doormats and are completely predictable. For the most part, say "no" when she asks you for things, and only do nice things for her on your terms. You do this because you have self respect, an attractive male quality, and not because she said so and might not like you anymore.
3. Be Chivalrous -- As contradictory to number three as it may seem, this is a biggie. There is a massive difference between chivalry and being a doormat. Open doors for her. When walking on the side walk, move her away from the street. Pull the seat out for her to sit on. Make her feel protected and secure around you. If she asks you to open the door for her, playfully tease her by calling her lazy and that she's not being polite for not opening the door for you. This is how you combine tip 2 and 3.
4. Engage Her Emotions -- Don't talk to a woman the way you do with your male friends or with your boss. She's not there to talk about work or school. She talks about that with her father or brother. Do you want her to think of you as her brother? Talk to her as a potential mate. Instead of making her think things make her feel things. Don't be a girl friend either. If you allow her to talk to you about her ex boyfriend problems or other emotionally related problems, you will be LJBFed. (Let's Just Be Friends)
5. Make Her Friends Like You -- Oftentimes, women invite their friends out to their dates as moral support. This usually frustrates men terribly. There is no reason to be frustrated. Sometimes, you can create more attraction with her friends around than you would just the two of you. Making her friends like you will guarantee you as the subject of conversation every time they talk, and with her friends egging her on to get with you, it will make it much smoother for you in the long run.
6. Properly Handle Her Bull Crap -- Many men get angry and vent out their frustration on the woman when she flakes out on a date or doesn't return their phone calls. This is bad bad bad and will completely kill the chances of her seeing you again. When you are first talking to a woman, you are not a huge part of her life. Don't pretend like she is a huge part of yours as well. If she cancels last minute on you, don't get angry at her and tell her she's rude. However, you can't allow her to treat you this way either. So instead of giving her a lecture, act as though you had something else you wanted to do anyway. You can say, "Oh that's okay. My friend has been wanting to cook for me for two weeks now and tonight was the only day she and I are both free this week. We'll try again next week. Take care!" She'll be flabbergasted, and probably a little jealous. She won't flake out on you again though.>:)
7. Take Your Time -- So many guys are needy or trying to get to sex as quickly as possible. The more you make it an issue, the more of an issue it becomes. If a woman senses that sex is a big deal to you, it will become a big deal to her. Relax. Enjoy yourself. Tease her. Take your time. Most women have an unwritten rule to not have sex until the third date anyway, so give her the gift of being a challenge and wait until she's hot for you and comfortable with you.