It is very disappointing to be attracted to someone and not be able to make a connection with them. There's a lot of men and women that face this problem everyday. Unfortunately, they do not know how to fix the problem...therefore, they suffer. Where can they find legitimate answers to their dating problems? There are plenty of resources, but who do you trust? Is there a secret on how to attract the opposite sex?
When I was much younger I suffered from shadow dating. That is, I could not attract women. My constant companion was my shadow! To me finding a date was like learning a foreign language. It was tough! But, I did not give up. I made so many mistakes...it wasn't funny! Looking back, I was quite a failure.
So how do you attract someone of the opposite sex? Why is it that some individuals can easily attract anyone and others just can't seem to catch a break? What makes someone attractive to the opposite sex?
What I have learned is that men and women don't understand what creates attraction. If you have trouble attracting the opposite sex more than likely you are sending out the wrong energy. It is well known that all people emit different kinds of energies. For this reason, some people are well received and others are rejected.
How do you create energy that will attract the opposite sex? You need to have a positive attitude, carry a smile, and speak with a voice of confidence. Both men and women love to attract individuals that are optimistic, possess a sense of humor, and are sure of themselves.
Now, if you are thinking that's all it takes....guess what, you are very WRONG! Your main problem is that you are focusing on people you think you can attract! You are leaving so much on the plate. You need to start focusing on how to make yourself more attractive to everyone. How you interact with all kinds of people will make you more attractive. Other people will see this in you and they will want to meet you. Stop focusing on those that you think you can attract and focus on learning how to interact outside your comfort zone.